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Jensen Beach High School teacher turns to pro surfers to help grieving student

John Bros takes notice of student whose father recently died, helps restore love for surfing
Posted at 9:57 AM, Apr 28, 2023
and last updated 2023-04-28 12:04:44-04

JENSEN BEACH, Fla. — WPTV met Mindi Paruta, a mother of five, and one of her sons at the WPTV Let's Hear It meet-up in Stuart.

She wanted to tell WPTV about a teacher who helped her middle son, Ben. The high school sophomore was drowning in grief.

"His teacher (asked), 'Are you OK, Benjamin?' Started talking to him. 'Who's your favorite surfer?' The teacher doesn't even surf," Paruta said.

John Bros is that teacher. Ben Paruta is a student of his at Jensen Beach High School. The patriarch of the Paruta family died earlier this year.

Hollani Davis meets with Mindi Paruta and son Layne Paruta in Stuart
WPTV's Hollani Davis meets with Mindi Paruta, a mother of five, and one of her sons, Layne Paruta, during the Let's Hear It meet-up in Stuart, Fla.

Bros spoke to some of his contacts and somehow got two of his student's favorite pro surfers to send him some love. They also sent Ben one of their old broken surfboards as a keepsake.

"This definitely helped," Layne Paruta, Ben's older brother, said.

"This is a big thing that helps a lot of days, if you could imagine," Mindi Paruta added.

broken surfboard for Ben Paruta says 'For Ben Stay Strong!'
This old broken surfboard contains a handwritten message for Ben Paruta that reads, "For Ben, Stay Strong!" The surfboard was a gift from two of Ben's favorite pro surfers, Griffin and Crosby Colapinto.

WPTV caught up with Bros to ask him why he went out of his way to help a student.

"I just had a lot of empathy for him as a young man and I couldn't really imagine having to deal with that, so the idea was I just kind of wanted to make that something I was going to put my energy into to try to have a positive thing happen for him," Bros said.

For him, it was no big deal to go the extra mile, but for a boy riding the waves of grief, it put him on the path toward healing and got him back to a passion he once shared with his father.

Hollani Davis poses for photo with Mindi Paruta, son Layne Paruta and broken surfboard signed by pro surfers
WPTV's Hollani Davis poses for a photograph with Mindi Paruta, her son, Layne Paruta, and a broken surfboard signed by two of Ben Paruta's favorite pro surfers.